Identity Crisis
Leadership expert Dr. John Maxwell stated, “You are not what you think you are. You are not what others think you are. You are what the most important person in your life thinks you are.”
In other words, we will become what the people we have value for say we are. Kris Vallotton said, “Identity is based on impartation not education.” We don’t learn who we are, identity is imparted by those we hold in high esteem. This principle is both beneficial and dangerous. The desire to accepted or loved by an abusive or manipulative person can be dangerous. You see, until you value God more than any other person in your life you will be at the mercy of others opinions & declarations over your life.
As a result those declaration of identity produce a culture around us. Jacob, deceiver or trickster, created a culture of deception where ever he went. This culture was started by his father (lied), encouraged by his mother (deception), perfected by Jacob (stolen blessing), duplicated in his father in law (changed wages), agreed upon by Leah (switched brides), repeated by Rachel (stolen idols) and ultimately produced by his sons (selling of Joseph).
His identity created a culture.
Now this lifetime of deception has come to a head. His brother Esau, along with 400 men, are making their way towards Jacob. This crisis led him to Jabbok. Jabbok means “To Empty”. We each need a Jabbok experience. We need a place to be emptied from the labels and names attached to our character. Physics has a simple rule . . . two objects cannot occupy the same space. We must first remove what is there before we can filled with something else. The level that we give up determines the level by which we can be filled up. This place was vital to his new identity.
You cannot receive a new identity until you release you present one.
Many are wearing labels God never intended you to have. Those labels have effected your destiny. I want to encourage you, you don’t need to wrestle with God, Jesus already paid the price but you do have to claim it. You are a champion, an over comer and royalty.
Find your Jabbok . . . a place you can empty your past, your mistakes & your labels.